First thing you should know is that, as shocking as this might be, Kissy Lovestuff is not my real name.
It is a nom de plume, merci beaucoup.
So why do I use it?
Well, for one, it is a name my husband once made up for me and it sort of just stuck.
And, for two, I am more comfortable when I am not presented as myself on the world wide platform. I write more freely, I'm more open. In other words and ironically, I am more myself when I am someone else.
For three, it should be my real name because it perfectly and succinctly captures the
essence - the je nais se quoi - of who I am. Think silly, fun, quirky.
For four, I don't necessarily love being found by everyone I've ever known. In the past, this has burned me so being Kissy adds another layer that someone would have to get through to get to me. I don't concern myself with being found out; if it happens, it happens.
If you don't already have a fake name, I recommend trying it. It's a terrific way to step outside the boundaries which is something I very highly recommend doing on a very regular basis.
What else about moi?
≈ I detest overly sentimenal, corny, clichèd platitude stuff.
I will never tell you to make lemonade when life hands you lemons. Instead I will probably tell you to climb into bed with some ice cream and stay there until you feel better.
I will never tell you to make lemonade when life hands you lemons. Instead I will probably tell you to climb into bed with some ice cream and stay there until you feel better.
≈ I love humor and people who embrace and share their originality.
≈ I am in no way politically correct.
≈ Many of my personal views go against what is currently trendy.
≈ I hate trendy.
≈ I believe you have the right to your opinion even if it is different than my own.
≈ I believe in God, miracles, and eating whatever the hell you want for breakfast.
≈ I am bored when you tell me about your workout.
≈ I am bored by pretentious people.
≈ I am a major introvert.
≈ I am interested in you. I want to know about what you love, hate, what makes your heart sing. But not if it's about your possessions.
≈ I am in no way politically correct.
≈ Many of my personal views go against what is currently trendy.
≈ I hate trendy.
≈ I believe you have the right to your opinion even if it is different than my own.
≈ I believe in God, miracles, and eating whatever the hell you want for breakfast.
≈ I am bored when you tell me about your workout.
≈ I am bored by pretentious people.
≈ I am a major introvert.
≈ I am interested in you. I want to know about what you love, hate, what makes your heart sing. But not if it's about your possessions.
